{"id":952,"date":"2013-05-10T08:07:01","date_gmt":"2013-05-10T08:07:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sparktoro.com\/blog\/?p=952"},"modified":"2013-06-23T16:02:17","modified_gmt":"2013-06-23T16:02:17","slug":"it-just-depends-what-you-want-to-consider","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sparktoro.com\/blog\/it-just-depends-what-you-want-to-consider\/","title":{"rendered":"It Just Depends What You Want to Consider"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I know that I am among the luckiest, most blessed human beings to have ever existed on the planet since the dawn of time. I&#8217;m not in the 1% or the 0.1%, I&#8217;m in the 0.0000000000-well-you-get-the-point-001. That&#8217;s not exclusively because of finances (no debt and $26,961.98 in the bank as of tonight) or the era and country into which I was born (though those are huge contributors), but because of how I experience the world.<\/p>\n<p>In my adult life, I haven&#8217;t done what I&#8217;ve heard so many people describe as &#8220;enduring&#8221; their lives\/jobs\/family\/friends\/situation. To me, the days seem to have very little monotony and an abundance of opportunities to be challenged, to learn, to help others, and to be filled with joy.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-953 aligncenter\" alt=\"depends-what-you-want-consi\" src=\"https:\/\/images.sparktoro.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/depends-what-you-want-consi.jpg\" width=\"740\" height=\"206\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Some of that, undoubtedly, is the incredibly lucky situation I&#8217;ve come to be in since dropping out of college, digging a struggling consulting business into and then out of debt, and being made CEO of an exciting startup. And a lot of it, assuredly, is the presence of amazing people in my life &#8211; the 130 coworkers whose company I like a weird amount given how much time we all get together, and my wife Geraldine (whose <a href=\"http:\/\/everywhereist.com\">blog <\/a>is basically a testament to these last 3 paragraphs).<\/p>\n<p>But some of it, too, is outlook and perception. It&#8217;s how I reflect on what goes on around me in the times when others might experience tedium or frustration or anger. I do get stressed, and I do feel those negative emotions, but if other people&#8217;s descriptions are any guide, for me, they&#8217;re dulled, like a shrill scream that&#8217;s almost too far away to hear.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>I watched the video below a few days ago and have been reflecting on it since in the 30 minutes of my walking commute to or from work. It does a wonderful job of capturing one of my favorite lessons of life: <em>&#8220;<strong>The only thing that&#8217;s capital &#8216;T&#8217; true is that you get to decide how you&#8217;re gonna try to see (the world).<\/strong>&#8220;<\/em><\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/player.vimeo.com\/video\/66775750?title=0&amp;byline=0&amp;portrait=0&amp;color=3d96d2\" align=\"center\" width=\"650\" height=\"366\" frameborder=\"0\" webkitAllowFullScreen mozallowfullscreen allowFullScreen><\/iframe> <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/66775750\">THIS IS WATER<\/a> from <a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\/user1798500\">nathan m peracciny<\/a> on <a href=\"http:\/\/vimeo.com\">Vimeo<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a principle in psychology called <a href=\"http:\/\/mindhacks.com\/2012\/07\/12\/bbc-future-column-why-i-am-always-unlucky-but-you-are-always-careless\/\">Fundamental Attribution Error<\/a>. We see the behaviors of others through a lens that doesn&#8217;t recognize situational motivation (that driver honked at me because she&#8217;s a butt), yet ascribe situational modifiers to explain a massive amount of our own behavior (I honked because I&#8217;m in a terrible rush and I worried that other driver wouldn&#8217;t see me and I had a really rough day). That capital &#8220;T&#8221; truth says we don&#8217;t have to be blinded by this principle, and can choose how we perceive the world around us.<\/p>\n<p>To quote a famous Englishman: &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/youtu.be\/vrlTeoFcf-Q\">All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given to us.<\/a>&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps our perceptions about the monotonous, frustrating, angering parts of our days aren&#8217;t always the ones we want to have, and perhaps, with a little effort, we can change them.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know that I am among the luckiest, most blessed human beings to have ever existed on the planet since the dawn of time. I&#8217;m not in the 1% or the 0.1%, I&#8217;m in the 0.0000000000-well-you-get-the-point-001. 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